The SAK2 Rulebook & Social Dynamics

Samy,

We certainly have our share of conflicts and disagreements in SAK2—more often than one might think. How we mitigate those conflicts and reach resolutions is not fundamentally different from how it’s done in your house.

In our former life (on your side of things), everyone is predictable because they follow a specific rulebook. On this side of life, we also follow a rulebook: the SAK2 Rulebook. The only real difference is the rules themselves. Ours are different from yours, but they are observed with total devotion, as if our lives depended on them.

Beyond the rules, we each have unique ways of dealing with people outside of our circle. Here is a breakdown of how we respond to those who are ignorant, acting on assumptions, or forcing a "friendliness" we didn't ask for:

Kissra (they/them)

Kissra does not broadcast their "red lines," nor do they particularly care about the opinions of outsiders. Their world is centered entirely on Gigi, Katie, me, and Father. I often warn people not to mix with Kissra because they don’t provide "warnings." If someone acts on assumptions and crosses a line, Kissra is unforgiving. They are crude, unapologetic, and indifferent to offending feelings. Their philosophy is: "You crossed my red line; you don't deserve mercy." This is a discipline taken straight from Father’s rulebook.

Two main issues usually arise with Kissra and disingenuous people:

• (1) The Professional Boundary: Because they maintain a connection to the fetish community as a Dominatrix, ignorant people sometimes try to approach them in their "vanilla" life instead of following the very specific instructions on their website.
• (2) The Shift in Focus: When people from my side of life learn about our past in the adult industry, their focus often shifts from me to my partners. To Kissra, that shift is a "death sentence" for the relationship.

However, when approached the "proper" way, Kissra is incredibly polite. My advice for anyone dealing with them is: Do not play games. Avoid empty pleasantries. Be extremely direct and clear with your intentions, and you will get a direct and clear response in return.

Katie (she/her)

Katie is an extremely private person. She is close with Kissra regarding logistics and with me regarding emotions, but she does not mingle with the public. You will almost always see her with Kissra in public; you will never see her mingling with strangers. Unlike Kissra’s bluntness, Katie is eloquently decisive. She is incredibly polite but will firmly put someone down to make them go away, leaving no doubt that she is not interested in a connection.

Gigi (she/her)

Gigi is a total introvert. You will never see her alone; she is always close to me, Kissra, or Katie. If a stranger persists in approaching her, she will move away. If they continue to push, she becomes extremely rude and runs to Kissra. At that point, Kissra doesn't care about the facts—they only care that Gigi is upset, and they will make Gigi’s rudeness look like child's play by comparison.

Sara (she/her)

I am the only one who gives second chances. Unlike my partners, who are lesbians and are primarily approached by men, I talk to everyone. My orientation is not as specific, and I open my heart in hopes that people will be genuine. But I have limits. I will not tolerate continued drama. When my limit is reached, I move away coldly and unexpectedly. Once I am gone, I am very difficult to win back.

How We Respond to Friends

Things are entirely different with our friends—people we deem honest, decent, and respectful.

Kissra is the one who evaluates potential friends based on their directness and actions over time. Once Kissra accepts someone, the rest of us follow suit. When a "Friend of SAK2" is established, you will see a completely different Gigi and Katie. We mingle, go to movies, restaurants, or the gym, and host movie nights at home. This trust remains as long as the friend remains consistent in their manners and focus. This is why our friends describe us as "polite angels," while those who are disingenuous or drama-filled see us as the exact opposite.

As always, Samy, let me know if you need any clarification. I am more than happy to answer your questions.