A Response to Samy and Family

Samy: I still love you with the same intensity from the Isydia times; I can’t deny that. Your memory lives in my heart.

As for Gigi, her broken heart follows me everywhere I go. Kissra and Katie don't feel jealous of that. That is what a family does—we hold each other as one. We don’t see jealousy when one of us needs something; we see a need that must be met.

For example, our lives are filled with "our things." Whenever we are out, we usually walk in pairs: Gigi with me, and Katie with Kissra. But when we walk to the park, I am always with Katie. That is our thing. We hold hands and snuggle while we walk, talking deeply. When we get there, we read books while Kissra and Gigi go off to chase after chaos. Katie and I show each other affection and call these "having our moments."

When we are at home, I’m with Gigi. We roleplay anime characters, fully dressed in costumes and makeup, acting out scenes together. That is our thing. Kissra and Gigi have their "Gothic days" on the calendar with their own rituals, and Katie and Kissra have their time dedicated to finances and responsibilities. On gaming nights, I’m with Kissra. That is our thing. We nurture all of these quirks without any jealousy.

This is why poly life is our way. We are a group of soulmates supporting one another. In a binary family, each person can feel alone, making them much more sensitive to the slightest change. In our family, we don't feel that loneliness. I hope this makes sense.

And Samy, you are always more than welcome to ask.